never confuse someone when they are already confused.it just causes a stir.and when u want to clear things up and straighten out a few bumps you have,they think u want more and u expect more.why not now?when u know what is best?it will be much better.it has no where else to go.why not?just.they cant do anything except with their words.listen to them and u go no where.prove them wrong and u prove to everyone u're not like them.but its not their choice,it's your choice.just..